Today 28th September, time 12:06 AM. I don’t have any particular reason to write this article but still I am writing this. I don’t know how I can explain the sufferings of my entire family during the last few months and the way we are suffering still now. We don’t even have any idea about when the bad time will come to an end. Our beloved ketis has left our house with sona and sanjeeb. It is almost impossible (I’m possible… that is why I have written almost impossible) to forget the moment I spend with my lil angel, my ketis (She is my elder sis’s daughter). In the last 6.5years I always tried to love her, tried to take good care of her. Last 10 days I was unable to have a glimpse of ketis. Somehow I have separated myself from my own world. I don’t even enjoy spending time with my best friend, my brother, my college mates, other friends, though I love them a lot. I, stopped watching my favorite cartoons, stopped watching the CD of my marriage. I, feel like crying, feel like shouting but tears are not coming out anymore (tanki khatam hogaya shayed :P). I am missing my husband but I have no other options but to stay away from him for a better future ( beti present ke bare mi bhi to kabhi socha kar :P). I stopped liking delicious foods, oh yes I used to be a foodie :P. After reading these lines you can easily understand that I am not feeling well. Just praying to Goddess Durga , Maa please show me the way. Campusing is nearby, it will be better to not to talk about my preparation.
Now, the thing which I want to share with you all, oye itni zaldi kya hain?? By the way it may give you a huge shock or you can feel like that I’m insane, maybe I am. Whatever, in these days the only program, which has helped me to laugh for 4.5 hrs/week and helped me to forget about all unpleasant experiences of life for a few moment, is none other than Mirakkel 6. No no I am not writing this to promote mirakkel (oh man, I’m a student of marketing management). I like to give a big thanks to Mir, the anchor of mirakkel 6. His jokes, his attitude, his insanity have inspired me to fight. While talking about Mir, suddenly a thought strikes my mind. I will like to share the thought with you all. Once a gay friend (friend is a little word to describe the depth our relationship) of mine said that Mir is very cheap artist. The person who is inspiring me in this crucial situation, how can he be a cheap artist? He said mimicry is a cheap art, Mir doesn’t have any originality. The person who has the ability to make people laugh even when they are going through a very bad phase of life, does we the average common people even have the right to judge his art? How can an art be cheap? Being a very average person with a very average IQ level I am unable to find answers of these questions.
Then he said that the way Mir imitates Rituparno is not right. Mir imitates Rituparno, Anjan Dutta, P.C. Sircar, Gautam Ghosh and many other famous artists. Then what is the reason behind Rituparno’s reactions? Answer: because he is gay. I don’t even know a proper word which can express the enormous talent of Rituparno Ghosh. Sir, we all are very proud of you. I want to ask a question to you. Why are you always thinking that you belong to a minority section? You are a complete human being with great thoughts; you are idol of many homosexual guys. After reaching that level, after getting these amount of respect ( after Satyajit Ray I think no one in tollywood have received these amount of respect) if you still feel you belong to a minority group and if you still feel insecure then what will happen to the gay society who have just started expressing their own identity? Don’t do this, give them courage. Tell them that they are one of us. Being a girl in male dominated society I also have faced some problems. Yes, we don’t belong to a minority group, but majority of us are still suffering but we don’t mind when people crack jokes about us, we don’t mind when people mock about our intelligence. If it hurts us we will prove them in the practical field, we are not going to shout anymore and many of us have proved that we are as good as a man, in some cases we are superior than a man (don’t consider physical strength for God’s sake, if you are doing the same please let me know, I will add one more paragraph to this article about the mental strength of us). Why doesn’t the homosexual society try to do the same? At least I’m with you. Why don’t you consider yourself as a sufferer then you can claim yourself as the majority of our society.
Mir, you are wonderful person no doubt, but when a person is asking you to not to imitate him then why are you doing the same? Why are you doing the same even after knowing that many people are suffering for the same? You are a sensible person; these activities do not suit you. I’m a big big big fan of yours so when people say anything against you that hurt me. There are many people in the society who are still not enough grown up to digest homosexuality. After seeing your mimicry they are misinterpreting it and teasing gays. So, I will be very happy if you stop imitating Rituparno. When Karan Johar in KHNH made some scene full of humor that does not hurt the gay society in the way your activity hurting them because Karan Johar is a gay and you are a proud father of a beautiful lil girl. So, only gays have the right to mock regarding their sensitive issues?
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